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Post by "Wyattsmom" on May 11, 2018 18:36:06 GMT
Mothers day is such a hard day when you dont have a child to hug. I'd do anything to hold my son.. everyone says " life goes on" but to me thats the saddest thing. I sit here and i ache. As life goes on. I sit here and i ache, i ache, i ache.
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Post by Kimmysmom on May 14, 2018 3:24:24 GMT
It has been exactly two months since my daughter died suddenly, she was 18 and only on her own for a couple of months. While I do have a few other children to hug me on this Mother's day, there is no happiness in my heart. There is just this gaping hole where she once was. People do say that life goes on, I think that what they mean is the world goes on. You continue to exist but you are forever changed when you have buried a child at any age. The sun comes up and it goes down but it never feels as warm or shines as brightly as it did before you knew this loss. For me there is no ache just the terrible helplessness that comes with the realization that my child has left this world, and me; behind her. Mother's day is a terrible thing.
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sueb
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Post by sueb on Jun 8, 2018 4:25:39 GMT
I lost my 20 year old son at the end of March. He had been sick but we thought the doctors had figured out the issue and he was doing so much better. We thought he was on the mend and in his sleep, he was gone. It hurts so much to be without him. I’m trying to do all I can- support groups, reading, counseling but it does not change the fact that I had to face every day without him. I have a 17 year old daughter who needs me and my husband. Everyone is very sad. I just don’t know how to face the future without him. So many occasions and holidays to face but I think the everyday things are so hard too—a restaurant he liked to go to, a movie he wanted to see, things he ordered in the mail got delivered. Just so hard sometimes. I know how you feel. I don’t want to be part of this club as I am sure you don’t want to be either.
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mamaz
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Post by mamaz on Aug 31, 2018 4:43:13 GMT
Hello all. My daughter passed just few weeks ago. Similar scenario as yours sueb with health issues but doing better, went to sleep and didn't wake. There is so much to say because there are so many layers to this. Trying to find ways to feel some relief from this pain.. I lost my 20 year old son at the end of March. He had been sick but we thought the doctors had figured out the issue and he was doing so much better. We thought he was on the mend and in his sleep, he was gone. It hurts so much to be without him. I’m trying to do all I can- support groups, reading, counseling but it does not change the fact that I had to face every day without him. I have a 17 year old daughter who needs me and my husband. Everyone is very sad. I just don’t know how to face the future without him. So many occasions and holidays to face but I think the everyday things are so hard too—a restaurant he liked to go to, a movie he wanted to see, things he ordered in the mail got delivered. Just so hard sometimes. I know how you feel. I don’t want to be part of this club as I am sure you don’t want to be either.
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